How to Build a Working Relationship

"No man can achieve extraordinary success without recruiting outside resources"
                            -Steven K. Scott

Been a 'jack ass' cannot bring you good results or make you successful in life

Been wealthy cannot make you happy or fulfilled

Been a genius doesn't make you do extraordinary things

All you need to do in this world is:
Building relationships that works for you.

We all need people to help us achieve our dreams and fulfill our purpose.

It makes no sense building relationship that profits nothing.

We all need to build contacts that counts, not complaining cards!

Building relationship that works for you brings happiness, success, fame and fortune.

The richest people in the world look for, and builds networks, everyone else looks for work       
                            - Robert Kiyosaki
The 'Jack Ass' Mentality

The 'jack ass' mentality are people who thinks they know it all and can do all alone.
People who don't need people are but jack ass!
The 'jack ass' mentality is probably the greatest disease in humanity.

A Jack man is a jack ass!

The greatest wealth on planet earth is people.
 when you don't have them, you are truly poor and most miserable.

A jack man is a person who has the know-it-all and can-do-it-alone mentality.
This person is nothing but a 'jack ass'.

People who have the right people in their lives are the luckiest people in the world.
Working hard to build a network makes more sense than working hard as an individual.
                            - Robert Kiyosaki
We here people giving success formulas like 'do-it-yourself' 'work hard' 'take it a step at a time'
and so on.  But these more like a painful-archaic truth that
has lost its effectiveness in this socially-oriented world we now live in.

Here is a better truth to take to heart: When we have the right people
in  your life you will start taking six steps in a time!
Speed, efficiency, effectiveness and a result-oriented life is achievable
when you have the right people in the your life.

Now you would want to throw at me a slid-in question:

"What do you mean about RIGHT PEOPLE?"
The right people are people who stand as a light to your life.
People who will add value and color to your life.
People who believe in you and inspire courage, faith and confidence inside
of you.
People who help you to see the vision of your destination and also
motivate you on getting there!

You don't need  'Jonahs in your boat! They will only bring storm and cause
boat to sink in the sea.

A jack-man believes he has to labor and struggle to earn whatever he gets.
he has not learn the power of favor and the glory of human resources.

The best gift God gives to man is the gift of human resource.
When you have the right people in your life, you will not have to earn things
through your hard work or thick-sweat;

Sometimes, even so-called Christians, are inflicted with the 'jack ass' mentality.
They believe when they have God they don't need anything else...even people.
This is the devil's sword in the back.

Yes; without God there is no people; but also without people there is no God.
You see, if we can't have people we see and feel , how Can we have a God we cannot see.
Do not be deceived! God is a Spirit. He works and manifest Himself through people.
Now think about this: If God, with all is power, might and glory, still need human resources (People)
what about us...mere mortals!

Learn to Loverage The Wealth in People

You must get people to share and change their thoughts, knowledge and experience with you
You must get people to believe and support your dream and visions
you must get people to help you accomplish or fulfill your dreams and goals
You must get people to offer their own time, effort, resources and skill so that
You can accomplish you dreams and target.
You must get people to mentor and motivate you until to get to the top of the ladder.

    Before Anything Else...

Before you can start tapping into people's power, presence and positive impact in your life,
you must first change your opinion about people.
You must start seeing people as a treasure and a valuable asset.
You must begin to see people having to ability and capability
in helping you reach the top.

Your attitude will determine how much you get from people.
If you see less in people, you probably get less from them.

**When you treat people like a million-bucks, they will start blessing
you in a million-fold.

The Power of Influence

A man always go like the company he keeps.

We all have networks; but the question is 'who is in that network?'
It's the people in your network that determines your life.

What many people build is net-HOLES,and not net-WORK.

We must understand the kind of people you allow into your life.

A friend that rove around in your life like a toad in the dirty water
only need to be thrown into the thrash-bin!

Now is time to start building a working relationship.
A relationship that really works...that pays!

To your success

Rufus Yamoah
Life Coach

How to Make Yourself a Person of Attraction

You mind is the mirror through which you see yourself.

"Why follow the crowd when you can make them come to you"
                        - Anonymous

Everyone of us have this strong need to win and influence
 friends, families, partners and even strangers...and become a person of attraction.

In all the need of man...there is this need...this inner NEED
which is called the NEED FOR ATTENTION....

Nobody want to be lost in the crowd
Everyone want to be the flower in the garden.
Even the Spectators want the camera turned to their direction!

Well...

It's not so much difficult to be seen by everyone...in fact you will be surprise to hear this:
People are eagerly waiting to see you!

It's true that, naturally, wealth and beauty are common forces that draws people to you.
(Please don't crucify me, those of you that are ugly and are poor!)

But I want to show you something different today...
Something, when taken into full practice will change your life and personality forever.

**IT ALL START IN THE MIND**

You must first transform your mind before you can ever transform your life and personality.

To transform your mind you must first change the way you think about yourself.

You mind is the mirror through which you see yourself.

If you think you are not attractive, you probably are not.
But also, if you think you are attractive , you are!

You mind is a your life transforming and transfiguration machine.
It has the capability and capacity to make you whatever you want or which.

The way you see or think about yourself is very contagious.
This means...people will begin to see and think about you the same way you think and see yourself.

If you think yourself in a royal fashion, people will start or soon start treating you like one.
(Believe me)

**CHANGE THE MENTALITY ABOUT YOURSELF, AND EVERYTHING ELSE IS JUST A MATTER OF TIME**
(Trust me).

Here are some powerful principles that will help you become a person of attraction.

1. Neatness: "Cleanliness is next to godliness".

Even God himself is influence by neatness and orderliness.
Nobody want to be with someone who is disorderly, scattering and dirty.
Develop a habit and lifestyle of neatness and orderliness.
People will respect and will look to you.

2. Boldness: This is one attribute distinguish the Lion from other animals in the animal kingdom.
BOLDNESS! Everyone runs to the man with the grit and gut, bold and courageous,daring and strong in the mind and heart.People will vote for you when you are bold.
It pays nothing to be a coward!

3. Style and Uniqueness: You must strive to create an image identity or personal branding for yourself.
Carve your own niche in the market, think innovation when doing things.
 It's time to move from the 'normal normal' syndrome and start thinking creatively and invent fully.

4. Funny: People want to be happy and relief.
They will jump to anyone who can give them that!
 If you are not born with the ability to make people laugh and happy, don't worry.
 Been funny is an art, and can be learned and developed.
Nobody want another melancholy, doom and gloomy friend around them.
Please do not ignore developing this skill. It will bring excitement, joy and laughter to people,
then they will stay glue to you!

5. Communication and Intelligence: Beauty without the brains makes you more ugly.
Lack of intelligence will only bring reproach and ridicule to you.
(Very true).
 People will be naturally drawn to you when they know you are intelligent.
Develop yourself. Invest in yourself. Read books. Take some courses. Attend seminars.
Build a solid house, people will run to take refuge in it

Remember, you can't continue to hide in the crowd.
It's time to turn the crowd to your direction.

Learn, practice and live by this simple principles
and you will become a person of attraction.

Keep your smile!

Rufus Yamoah
Life Coach

How to Transform Your Personal Image and Enjoy Power

An image speaks louder than a thousand words…A Chinese proverb

How do people perceive us?

What impression do they have about us?

What is their belief system about us like?

What is their mental and emotional response like when they see your face or hear your voice?

You must never underestimate the power of perception!

People will most likely treat us the way they see us, not the way we see ourselves.

Our presentation and communication will determine the response we get from the crowd.

If you learn the art of creating a powerful image, symbol, spectacle, gesture and attitude, you will win the heart and mind of people, and you will have a slight edge over your friends and competitors and also increases your opportunity chances!

Take this from me…

To win people, you must first appeal to their sense of SIGHT.

Here are some powerful and can’t-do-without principles you must practice.

1. Be bold and confident: This is a winning attitude you cannot do without in the world of power, influence and leadership. Nobody lies to be around a coward!

2. Master your emotions through self-discipline and control: you must understand that power is nothing without control. It’s destructive to your image to always respond to emotions like hate, jealousy, envy and bitterness. Your emotions create your impression.

3. Avoid negative communication like quarrelling, complaining and arguments: yes, it’s true that we cannot or may not absolutely live without these things, but never let these negative communications to become part of you if you desire a positive image of power.

4. Live a healthy lifestyle: You cannot be a smoker, drunker, womanizer or a party crooner and expect to build a positive self image that will influence or lead others. In these, people will see you as unfit to be a role model. First remove the stick in your eyes, before you think of others. True talk!

5. Be funny and creative: You must have a striking presence when you are among people. You must learn to heart of filling people’s heart with humor, joy and laughter. People can’t resist this!

6. Be generous with gifts: Givers never lack…never lack friends and people.

7. Become financially independent: You word or presence may sometimes not be felt among people because there is an hole in your pocket! Stop begging and relying on others. Aim at financial dependency and you will earn power for yourself.

Please I beseech you to practice and develop these secrets and you life will never remain the same.

Live the life without walls!

Rufus Yamoah

Life Coach

The Secret of Becoming a Lovable Person

“Therefore all things whatsoever you would that men should do for you, do even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets".

Here is the plain-straight truth:

EVERYONE WANTS TO BE LOVED

This is perhaps the greatest need of man.

Everything we do in life is in one way or more connected to the love hole in our soul that we striveto fill

Love is the mother of all life’s pleasures, satisfaction and fulfillment.

 If you are not loved by others, it does matter how much you’ve got!

It is sweet to Love, but by experience, I can tell you that…

IT IS EVEN SWEETER TO BE LOVED.

Been Lovable?

I hear so many people say, “I am not a lovable person”, “I don’t have the charisma”.

**What makes one a lovable person?**

CHARISMA OR CHARM…**whatever you call it, its hell NO!

Been lovable is not in- born thing, because it’s not a natural gift neither is it a biological inheritance.

Yes; it’s true some people are naturally attractive.

But the first step you must  grasp, is that there is a big difference between been attractive and been lovable

Listen: JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE UGLY DOES NOT MEAN YOU CANNOT BE LOVABLE; AND ALSO, JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE ATTRACTIVE DOES MEAN YOU ARE LOVABLE!

What Makes ONE lovable?

His ability to LOVE!

Yes; His ability to LOVE.

To be lovable means to be lovely

Love is a SEED.

When we sow love, we reap LOVE

When we sow envy, we reap hatred; when we sow hate, we reap murder.

 Every one of us was born with the potential to become a lovable person.

Why?

Because we where created by LOVE.

Our blood line is from LOVE and we have an in-built nature of love lying inside of us.

It’s time to awake that sleeping giant called ‘love’ inside us.

How?

When we begin to stretch our curds and start to genuinely love people irrespective of their differences and weaknesses, we will begin to see our potential and capacity to attract Love and become a lovable person.

Everything leads to this STATEMENT OF FACT: if you want love, first give it!

How much love you give to others will determine how much love you attract or command to yourself.

I dare you to become lovable today.

I dare you to increase the measure of your life success and fulfillment by loving and caring for others.

Hatred is ‘taking a gun and shooting yourself thinking someone else we die!”

Remember…

There is a great MEASURE OF LOVE inside of you.

Until you start thinking this way, you cannot release yourself to love others.

Love yourself…

Love others…

Love God…

Love Life

Keep your smile

Rufus Yamoah

Life coach

How to Inspire and Influence People through Praise

“….the Lord has anointed me to ….give them the mantle of praise instead of a faint spirit”---Isaiah 61:1-3 (RSV)

Let us try to understand the meanings of the keywords

And then try to apply and analyze them.

Keyword 1: ANOINTED:

To be anointed means: to be empowered; given ability, power or unction; a might or an enablement to do something.

TRUTH: When God created you He has anointed you…put inside of you power  and enablement to be able to fulfill your purpose in life.

Keyword 2: TO GIVE: God created us to GIVE.

Yes; we are in this world to reproduce, fill, replenish, add and give value to this world.

Have you ever asked yourself this question: “Why is that when a man dies he takes nothing along to his grave?”

Here is the answer: A man was created to GIVE, therefore we all came to live a giving life.

We are anointed to GIVE.

There is so much we can give…

Our talents, love, care, strength, money, skills, knowledge, resources…just name it.

A life that is not constantly giving out something is perhaps living out of His Divine Order.

 Keyword 3: MANTLE OF PRAISE:

First of all, let’s know the meaning of the word ‘mantle’

According to Webster dictionary, mantle means ‘a loose sleeveless outer garment or something that covers or wraps’.

This is amazing!

The truth it offers is just mind blowing.

What then is mantle of praise?

It means… a praise that wraps or covers one like a garment!

TRUTH: We have been appointed and anointed to give out praise that will wrap or cover others like a garment. It’s like buying a beautiful cloth for someone!

To cloth people with PRAISE, we must learn to praise people genuinely and generously.

Let us not let the garment of praise we have to rust in our wardrobe.

We must give it out!

Keyword 4: FAINT SPIRIT:

This is what you must never do.

But the truth is that I have seen too many people do this all the time.

What is a faint spirit?

Faint spirit means to be broken-hearted; downcast; hopeless; depressed; mourning; sad and discouraged.

Giving a faint spirit means causing people to be discouraged; beaking people’s heart; causing them pain and taking away their joy.

Are you one of those that give out faint spirit instead of a mantle of praise? (EXAMINE YOUR WAYS)

You must go back to your divine order.

We are always very quick to criticize and judge when the job is done poorly, and we are very slow to give out praise and compliment when to job is done well.

***CHANGE YOUR ORIENTATION***

Why WE Must Give Out Praise Generously…

Praise makes people feel loved

Praise inspires boldness and confidence in people

Praise create motivation and force in people

Praise makes people feel important.

Praise brings out the beauty and smile of people

Give out some praise today

This is my praise to you: “Everything about you is Special!”

Rufus Yamoah

Life Coach