How to Make Yourself a Person of Attraction

You mind is the mirror through which you see yourself.

"Why follow the crowd when you can make them come to you"
                        - Anonymous

Everyone of us have this strong need to win and influence
 friends, families, partners and even strangers...and become a person of attraction.

In all the need of man...there is this need...this inner NEED
which is called the NEED FOR ATTENTION....

Nobody want to be lost in the crowd
Everyone want to be the flower in the garden.
Even the Spectators want the camera turned to their direction!

Well...

It's not so much difficult to be seen by everyone...in fact you will be surprise to hear this:
People are eagerly waiting to see you!

It's true that, naturally, wealth and beauty are common forces that draws people to you.
(Please don't crucify me, those of you that are ugly and are poor!)

But I want to show you something different today...
Something, when taken into full practice will change your life and personality forever.

**IT ALL START IN THE MIND**

You must first transform your mind before you can ever transform your life and personality.

To transform your mind you must first change the way you think about yourself.

You mind is the mirror through which you see yourself.

If you think you are not attractive, you probably are not.
But also, if you think you are attractive , you are!

You mind is a your life transforming and transfiguration machine.
It has the capability and capacity to make you whatever you want or which.

The way you see or think about yourself is very contagious.
This means...people will begin to see and think about you the same way you think and see yourself.

If you think yourself in a royal fashion, people will start or soon start treating you like one.
(Believe me)

**CHANGE THE MENTALITY ABOUT YOURSELF, AND EVERYTHING ELSE IS JUST A MATTER OF TIME**
(Trust me).

Here are some powerful principles that will help you become a person of attraction.

1. Neatness: "Cleanliness is next to godliness".

Even God himself is influence by neatness and orderliness.
Nobody want to be with someone who is disorderly, scattering and dirty.
Develop a habit and lifestyle of neatness and orderliness.
People will respect and will look to you.

2. Boldness: This is one attribute distinguish the Lion from other animals in the animal kingdom.
BOLDNESS! Everyone runs to the man with the grit and gut, bold and courageous,daring and strong in the mind and heart.People will vote for you when you are bold.
It pays nothing to be a coward!

3. Style and Uniqueness: You must strive to create an image identity or personal branding for yourself.
Carve your own niche in the market, think innovation when doing things.
 It's time to move from the 'normal normal' syndrome and start thinking creatively and invent fully.

4. Funny: People want to be happy and relief.
They will jump to anyone who can give them that!
 If you are not born with the ability to make people laugh and happy, don't worry.
 Been funny is an art, and can be learned and developed.
Nobody want another melancholy, doom and gloomy friend around them.
Please do not ignore developing this skill. It will bring excitement, joy and laughter to people,
then they will stay glue to you!

5. Communication and Intelligence: Beauty without the brains makes you more ugly.
Lack of intelligence will only bring reproach and ridicule to you.
(Very true).
 People will be naturally drawn to you when they know you are intelligent.
Develop yourself. Invest in yourself. Read books. Take some courses. Attend seminars.
Build a solid house, people will run to take refuge in it

Remember, you can't continue to hide in the crowd.
It's time to turn the crowd to your direction.

Learn, practice and live by this simple principles
and you will become a person of attraction.

Keep your smile!

Rufus Yamoah
Life Coach